It seems like this person has a misinformed idea of what the term "breadwinner" actually means. If you make more money than your partner, but you still split your expenses 50/50 and spend the difference on yourself, you don't get to give your friends and family the impression that you're the moneyed life raft that your partner is clinging onto for dear life. The descriptions here seem to indicate that it's kind of the other way around. Hell, it seems like this lady is pretty crap with her money altogether.
The internet was quick to point out that marrying someone who lies about this sort of thing might not be a very good move. OP was probably leaning in this direction in the first place, and all the responses indicating that, "yeah, that's a weird thing to do" were most likely the icing on the cake when it came to postponing the wedding entirely.
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